Handling Your Emotions When Trying To Win A Girl Back
Being patient when trying to get back together with your girlfriend is difficult. There's no question about it. You worry that someone else is going to come along and scoop her up, if that isn't the case already. You worry that she's going to forget about you. You worry that she's going to get used to living her life without you. But even more, you just worry that the window of opportunity is closing so you're frantic to find a solution to your problem and get her back as soon as possible.
Most men will admit that after a breakup they become more than a little emotional. Even the strongest of us become fearful and anxious when the woman we love rejects us. We become jealous of any guy that comes near her and anxious that she will get into another relationship and forget about us. These emotions and a lack of patience cause us to do sometimes drastic things to shorten the amount of time that it might take to win our ex back. We become desperate due to our fear of loss and we wind up doing things to further destroy our relationship with the one we love.
A common reaction to this fear and all these emotions is to come up with a plan or scheme to get our ex back that goes something like this. We first try to apologize to our ex. We might make a list of things that we did wrong or things that we didn't do when we were in the relationship. We promise to do everything right. We tell our ex that we're sorry and that everything will be fine if they will only give us a second chance. We can change and we might even show our ex the things that we have begun to change.
When that doesn't work, you may have tried some variations of this technique. You tried being super nice to her or you bought her gifts. You may have even told her that you had bought these gifts before you broke up but you wanted her to have these things. You may have even begged or cried and pleaded with her to have mercy upon your soul and asked her to give you another chance. You told her that you loved her and that she was the most important person in your life.
In case you didn't know already, all of these methods will fail you. No matter how much your frantic mind might want to convince you that these are the right things to do, it's lying to you. Your mind will try to tell you all sorts of things to get you to just act and do the wrong things. It is filled with fear right now. Fear will cause you to do anything right about now, even if it's wrong. You should be kicking back right now coming up with a real plan to get your girlfriend back if you're serious.
Women are a little bit different than men when it comes to emotions such as love. You need to understand that she has made a big decision. She has probably told all the people close to her that your relationship is over. In order for her to get back together with you she is going to have to feel some emotions powerful enough to overcome that decision. She will need to feel such passion that she doesn't care what her friends and family think. It's your job to understand her and what she needs to feel in order to love you that way again.
It certainly is possible to win her back by hitting her emotional hot buttons. It's might not be easy for you but it is rather simple. Like many things in life, it's only when we really care that things get difficult. If you didn't care about her and love her then it would be a piece of cake to win her over. Your heart is involved though. You want things to work out so it's important that you have a well laid out plan that is bomb proof and effective.
Most men will admit that after a breakup they become more than a little emotional. Even the strongest of us become fearful and anxious when the woman we love rejects us. We become jealous of any guy that comes near her and anxious that she will get into another relationship and forget about us. These emotions and a lack of patience cause us to do sometimes drastic things to shorten the amount of time that it might take to win our ex back. We become desperate due to our fear of loss and we wind up doing things to further destroy our relationship with the one we love.
A common reaction to this fear and all these emotions is to come up with a plan or scheme to get our ex back that goes something like this. We first try to apologize to our ex. We might make a list of things that we did wrong or things that we didn't do when we were in the relationship. We promise to do everything right. We tell our ex that we're sorry and that everything will be fine if they will only give us a second chance. We can change and we might even show our ex the things that we have begun to change.
When that doesn't work, you may have tried some variations of this technique. You tried being super nice to her or you bought her gifts. You may have even told her that you had bought these gifts before you broke up but you wanted her to have these things. You may have even begged or cried and pleaded with her to have mercy upon your soul and asked her to give you another chance. You told her that you loved her and that she was the most important person in your life.
In case you didn't know already, all of these methods will fail you. No matter how much your frantic mind might want to convince you that these are the right things to do, it's lying to you. Your mind will try to tell you all sorts of things to get you to just act and do the wrong things. It is filled with fear right now. Fear will cause you to do anything right about now, even if it's wrong. You should be kicking back right now coming up with a real plan to get your girlfriend back if you're serious.
Women are a little bit different than men when it comes to emotions such as love. You need to understand that she has made a big decision. She has probably told all the people close to her that your relationship is over. In order for her to get back together with you she is going to have to feel some emotions powerful enough to overcome that decision. She will need to feel such passion that she doesn't care what her friends and family think. It's your job to understand her and what she needs to feel in order to love you that way again.
It certainly is possible to win her back by hitting her emotional hot buttons. It's might not be easy for you but it is rather simple. Like many things in life, it's only when we really care that things get difficult. If you didn't care about her and love her then it would be a piece of cake to win her over. Your heart is involved though. You want things to work out so it's important that you have a well laid out plan that is bomb proof and effective.
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