Attract The Girl Of Your Dreams
Whether you've just gone through a breakup and you want to get your ex back or you want to move on, often overcoming the pain can be a seemingly impossible task.
You think about your ex all the time. Every morning you relive the pain and emotions of being alone. There's anger, sorrow, depression and a feeling of worthlessness that goes along with each and every breakup no matter what the circumstances might have been.
A man who sees a woman as somehow different than the other women around him will cause him to start to become attracted to her. If he is accustomed to women who chase him or flirt with him and he find a woman that doesn't flirt with him then she will feel different. Inversely, if he is used to women that ignore him or think of him as only smart or funny and he finds a woman that sees his other attributes then he will become attracted to her. She will appear different to him.
First, stop trying to analyze everything. Stop trying to make all of this more complicated than it needs to be. Think of her just like you would any other woman. She's not perfect and she is bound to have some flaws. If you wind up putting her up on a pedastal and kissing her feet she's going to lose respect for you and you're going to start to give off a creepy vibe.
Yes, women can tell when a guy is just a little too into her and it freaks them out. Most of us are pretty damaged. All of us have some baggage and deep down inside our hearts we all see our own flaws. When someone makes a huge deal out of us it sends a message that there is something wrong with the other person. Women are even more in tune with this and without a word they can sense when you feel this way. Keep your head and keep your cool. Remember, she uses the toilet just like everyone else. She might be really cool but be sure that she is flawed in one way or another. In time, you will love those flaws too but for right now, she's not going to show you those flaws.
Secondly, do your best to trust her and avoid jealousy and insecurity at all costs. Questions about guy friends, ex boyfriends, where she was or how she feels about you will destroy her opinion of you pretty quickly. Even if you know for a fact that she's seeing another guy or if one of your buddies is interested in her also, play it cool and don't even hint that you're jealous or worried about a thing.
Loving yourself, accepting yourself as you are is important. In this life there are going to be times when you will be alone. You have to be your own best friend. You have to treat yourself well and start doing things that are going to make you happy. This might mean something as simple as watching a movie that makes you smile and improves your mood even when you don't want to or treating yourself to a little shopping therapy. A quick trip to the store to buy yourself a present can prove to yourself that you love yourself. Before you laugh or think that this is ridiculous, give it a try.
Getting past the pain of your breakup isn't an easy process. There are going to be times when you feel like you are cured but those black thoughts and feelings of despair might be right around the corner for you. Understanding this and being patient with yourself is something to keep in mind. You can and will feel better one day soon and the pain from this breakup will be a distant memory.
You think about your ex all the time. Every morning you relive the pain and emotions of being alone. There's anger, sorrow, depression and a feeling of worthlessness that goes along with each and every breakup no matter what the circumstances might have been.
A man who sees a woman as somehow different than the other women around him will cause him to start to become attracted to her. If he is accustomed to women who chase him or flirt with him and he find a woman that doesn't flirt with him then she will feel different. Inversely, if he is used to women that ignore him or think of him as only smart or funny and he finds a woman that sees his other attributes then he will become attracted to her. She will appear different to him.
First, stop trying to analyze everything. Stop trying to make all of this more complicated than it needs to be. Think of her just like you would any other woman. She's not perfect and she is bound to have some flaws. If you wind up putting her up on a pedastal and kissing her feet she's going to lose respect for you and you're going to start to give off a creepy vibe.
Yes, women can tell when a guy is just a little too into her and it freaks them out. Most of us are pretty damaged. All of us have some baggage and deep down inside our hearts we all see our own flaws. When someone makes a huge deal out of us it sends a message that there is something wrong with the other person. Women are even more in tune with this and without a word they can sense when you feel this way. Keep your head and keep your cool. Remember, she uses the toilet just like everyone else. She might be really cool but be sure that she is flawed in one way or another. In time, you will love those flaws too but for right now, she's not going to show you those flaws.
Secondly, do your best to trust her and avoid jealousy and insecurity at all costs. Questions about guy friends, ex boyfriends, where she was or how she feels about you will destroy her opinion of you pretty quickly. Even if you know for a fact that she's seeing another guy or if one of your buddies is interested in her also, play it cool and don't even hint that you're jealous or worried about a thing.
Loving yourself, accepting yourself as you are is important. In this life there are going to be times when you will be alone. You have to be your own best friend. You have to treat yourself well and start doing things that are going to make you happy. This might mean something as simple as watching a movie that makes you smile and improves your mood even when you don't want to or treating yourself to a little shopping therapy. A quick trip to the store to buy yourself a present can prove to yourself that you love yourself. Before you laugh or think that this is ridiculous, give it a try.
Getting past the pain of your breakup isn't an easy process. There are going to be times when you feel like you are cured but those black thoughts and feelings of despair might be right around the corner for you. Understanding this and being patient with yourself is something to keep in mind. You can and will feel better one day soon and the pain from this breakup will be a distant memory.
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