3 Sure Signs That Your Ex Still Has Feelings For You
The confusion over how your ex feels about you after a breakup can be a little confusing, to say the least. What your ex says and does can send you a mixed message. You don't want to believe that it's truly over yet they say that they're done. They have broken up with you. On the other hand, you can't imagine that your ex feels nothing for you. How do you know what they feel? Is there still a chance and can your ex still be in love with you after all?
Sorting out your own feelings and deciding what you should do in such a situation can be heartbreaking. Does your ex still love you? Does your ex miss you? Should you try talking things through with your ex or should you wait for them to come back to you? The truth is that your ex very well might be as confused as you are right now but take a hint from these signs that your ex does still love you and hold fast to the hope that you can get back together with your ex.
If you hear from some of your friends or family members that you ex was in touch with them then there is a good chance that your ex is missing you. Your ex might say that they were simply catching up with old friends or that they didn't want to be rude to your family but the truth is probably something completely different. For your ex to contact your mutual friends or your immediate family, there is probably still some love there for you and a feeling of loss that they needed to address. Contacting people close to you is a passive way of contacting you without disturbing you or contacting you directly.
The temptation to either become angry with your friends and family for talking with your ex might be your initial reaction. Instead of lashing out at them, recognize this communication between your ex and the people around you as a feeble attempt to get information about you. It might be best if you keep your thoughts and feelings to yourself at this point. Dragging your close friends into your relationship right now isn't a good idea. Let your ex become frustrated when they can't get any real information out of these resources and make your ex contact you directly instead. Using a third party to help you get your ex back isn't a good idea, no matter how clever you might think it is.
Next, has your ex tried contacting you directly to ask you a mundane question or to set up a meeting so they can return your belongings? If your ex misses you and still has feelings for you, they might reach out to you directly to hear your voice and satisfy that urge to connect with you. As much as you miss your ex and the daily contact that you once had, your ex is still a human being and taking something as important as an intimate relationship away will cause them to feel some loss. This is perfectly natural.
Try to resist the urge to talk about the breakup or anything having to do with getting back together. You can be glad to hear their voice or happy to receive their message but keep you wits about you. Keep your thoughts and emotions to yourself concerning getting back together. If you feel that you aren't ready to see your ex at the moment, find an excuse to put off meeting with them or avoid their phone call for the moment. It is crucially important that you exude confidence and happiness at this point in the process of getting back together. Your actions and body language will speak volumes so resist the temptation and don't speak about getting back together until they voice their desire.
One good place to look for signs that your ex is still in love with you is on their social networking profile. While spying on your ex is frowned upon, you probably know that your ex looks at your profile to see what is going on in your life. Likewise, your ex knows that you look at their profile so they will sometimes post pictures or write about how happy they are with life right now. Chances are that the majority of information that your ex posts to their profile will be directed towards you without mentioning your name at all.
Checking out their social networking profiles can be stressful. You never know what you're going to find. Dread overcomes you and your heart drops when you see something new. Try not to take any of this to heart. Often an ex will try just a little too hard to send a message that they're doing fine without you when in fact they are hurting. Avoiding the grieving process can backfire and cause them to break down. Be waiting for this as your opportunity to get your ex back.
It would be easy to continue to doubt that your ex has feelings for you. Often, people hide their emotions and cover them with other emotions such as hate, apparent apathy or anger. Be sure that if you notice any of these signs that your ex does still feel something for you. They will miss you no matter how much they might want to appear as if they don't miss you. They still love you no matter what they might say or do with their life. Your challenge is to make them fall in love with you again. Your goal needs to be to bring that love to the surface passively. Get your confidence back and be ready for the day when your ex simply can't stand being apart from you. Know in your hear that this day is coming and get to work formulating a plan for what you are going to say and do to get your ex back.
Sorting out your own feelings and deciding what you should do in such a situation can be heartbreaking. Does your ex still love you? Does your ex miss you? Should you try talking things through with your ex or should you wait for them to come back to you? The truth is that your ex very well might be as confused as you are right now but take a hint from these signs that your ex does still love you and hold fast to the hope that you can get back together with your ex.
If you hear from some of your friends or family members that you ex was in touch with them then there is a good chance that your ex is missing you. Your ex might say that they were simply catching up with old friends or that they didn't want to be rude to your family but the truth is probably something completely different. For your ex to contact your mutual friends or your immediate family, there is probably still some love there for you and a feeling of loss that they needed to address. Contacting people close to you is a passive way of contacting you without disturbing you or contacting you directly.
The temptation to either become angry with your friends and family for talking with your ex might be your initial reaction. Instead of lashing out at them, recognize this communication between your ex and the people around you as a feeble attempt to get information about you. It might be best if you keep your thoughts and feelings to yourself at this point. Dragging your close friends into your relationship right now isn't a good idea. Let your ex become frustrated when they can't get any real information out of these resources and make your ex contact you directly instead. Using a third party to help you get your ex back isn't a good idea, no matter how clever you might think it is.
Next, has your ex tried contacting you directly to ask you a mundane question or to set up a meeting so they can return your belongings? If your ex misses you and still has feelings for you, they might reach out to you directly to hear your voice and satisfy that urge to connect with you. As much as you miss your ex and the daily contact that you once had, your ex is still a human being and taking something as important as an intimate relationship away will cause them to feel some loss. This is perfectly natural.
Try to resist the urge to talk about the breakup or anything having to do with getting back together. You can be glad to hear their voice or happy to receive their message but keep you wits about you. Keep your thoughts and emotions to yourself concerning getting back together. If you feel that you aren't ready to see your ex at the moment, find an excuse to put off meeting with them or avoid their phone call for the moment. It is crucially important that you exude confidence and happiness at this point in the process of getting back together. Your actions and body language will speak volumes so resist the temptation and don't speak about getting back together until they voice their desire.
One good place to look for signs that your ex is still in love with you is on their social networking profile. While spying on your ex is frowned upon, you probably know that your ex looks at your profile to see what is going on in your life. Likewise, your ex knows that you look at their profile so they will sometimes post pictures or write about how happy they are with life right now. Chances are that the majority of information that your ex posts to their profile will be directed towards you without mentioning your name at all.
Checking out their social networking profiles can be stressful. You never know what you're going to find. Dread overcomes you and your heart drops when you see something new. Try not to take any of this to heart. Often an ex will try just a little too hard to send a message that they're doing fine without you when in fact they are hurting. Avoiding the grieving process can backfire and cause them to break down. Be waiting for this as your opportunity to get your ex back.
It would be easy to continue to doubt that your ex has feelings for you. Often, people hide their emotions and cover them with other emotions such as hate, apparent apathy or anger. Be sure that if you notice any of these signs that your ex does still feel something for you. They will miss you no matter how much they might want to appear as if they don't miss you. They still love you no matter what they might say or do with their life. Your challenge is to make them fall in love with you again. Your goal needs to be to bring that love to the surface passively. Get your confidence back and be ready for the day when your ex simply can't stand being apart from you. Know in your hear that this day is coming and get to work formulating a plan for what you are going to say and do to get your ex back.
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